Purpose

LIGHT is a Christian homeschool support community built on Biblical principles, moral values, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to raising children in a Christ-centered environment while supporting one another in the homeschooling journey. This Code of Conduct outlines the expectations for behavior among all member families to protect the integrity, safety, and mission of our community.

We welcome families of all backgrounds who are willing to participate respectfully within our Christian framework and agree to uphold these behavioral standards and the group’s Christian mission, even if they do not share all of our beliefs.

1. Christian Foundation

This group operates under the authority of the Bible as the inspired, inerrant Word of God. (2 Timothy 3:16)
Group activities may include prayer, worship, Scripture readings, and other expressions of Christian faith. (Colossians 4:2; 1 Corinthians 10:31)
Members are not required to be Christians but must show respect for the group’s Christian foundation, faith-based practices, and Biblical worldview.

2. General Conduct Expectations

We expect all members—adults and children—to:

Treat others with kindness, patience, and respect. (Ephesians 4:32; Matthew 7:12; Romans 12:10)
Use speech that is uplifting and appropriate—free of profanity, gossip, slander, insults, or crude humor. (Colossians 4:6; Proverbs 10:18; Ephesians 4:29)
Abstain from behavior that is disruptive, divisive, disrespectful, threatening or aggressive (e.g. physical aggression or harassment). (Proverbs 16:28; Ephesians 4:31)

3. Sexual Conduct & Public Morality

In accordance with Biblical teaching and the conservative values of our community, the following conduct is not permitted at group events or in group communication spaces:

Sexual activity of any kind. (1 Corinthians 6:13, 18; 1 Thessalonians 4:3)
Inappropriate sexual conversations, innuendo, jokes, materials, or suggestive behavior. (Ephesians 5:3-4)
Promotion, advocacy, or outward expression of homosexuality, bisexuality, transgender identity, or other ideologies related to gender fluidity or sexual expression that are inconsistent with Biblical teaching. (Genesis 1:27; Leviticus 18:22; Deuteronomy 22:5; Psalm 139:13; Romans 12:2)

We acknowledge that individuals may hold personal beliefs that differ from those of this community. However, outward expression or advocacy of those beliefs in this group context is considered disruptive to our mission and will not be permitted.

4. Parental Responsibility

Parents or guardians are fully responsible for the behavior and discipline of their child(ren) at all group functions. (Proverbs 22:6)
Children 12 and under should not be left unattended; if a parent cannot attend, another designated adult must be responsible for their child(ren)’s supervision.

5. Dress & Modesty

Our goal is to create an environment where everyone feels comfortable, respected, and focused on learning and fellowship. We believe our outward appearance should reflect our values of modesty, humility, and honoring God and others.

General Guidelines:

Dress should reflect respect for self and others.
Clothing should be modest, neat, and appropriate for the activities of the day.
Avoid clothing that is tight-fitting, revealing, or distracting. (Proverbs 31:30; 1 Timothy 2:9-10; Titus 2:6; 1 Peter 3:3-4)
Logos, images, or messages on clothing and accessories must be positive and Christ-honoring—no profanity, violence, or inappropriate themes. (1 Thessalonians 5:22)
Tops should fully cover the chest, back, and midriff, including during movement. Avoid see-through or sheer materials unless layered appropriately.
Bottoms should be a reasonable length.
For group outings, performances, or themed events, specific dress guidelines may be provided. Please respect these requests.

6. Safety & Order

Children should remain in designated areas and follow instructions from event leaders and volunteers.
Running indoors, damaging property, or reckless behavior is not permitted.
Everyone shares responsibility for maintaining a safe and welcoming atmosphere.

7. Facility Stewardship

We are grateful for the spaces we use and expect members to treat them with care and respect.
Clean up after yourself and assist with setup or cleanup when asked. (Colossians 3:23)

8. Media & Technology Use

Any media (music, videos, games, etc.) used during events must be family-friendly and age-appropriate. (Psalm 101:3)
Personal devices should be used respectfully, in accordance with the purpose and rules of the event, and only for appropriate purposes.

9. Participation Expectations

Members are encouraged to participate regularly, arrive on time, and communicate promptly if unable to attend.
We rely on the cooperative spirit of our families to support volunteers, leaders, and one another.

10. Volunteers

Volunteers are expected to demonstrate maturity, responsibility, and Christ-like conduct. (1 Peter 4:10)
Background checks may be required for volunteers working with minors.
Volunteers should never be alone with a child who is not their own.
Any inappropriate conduct should be reported to leadership promptly.

11. Board Members and Leadership

Board members are held to high standards of integrity, humility, and servant leadership. (Matthew 20:26). They are expected to:

Support the Christian mission of the group in word and action.
Handle sensitive matters with discretion and confidentiality.
Promote unity and transparency.
Address conflicts biblically and respectfully.

12. Conflict Resolution and Discipline

As a Christian community, we are commanded to love one another. However, due to the effects of sin, we can expect conflict to arise at times. In times of conflict, we are called to pursue reconciliation and peace with one another as an expression of the gospel itself (Matthew 5:9, 23-24; Romans 12:18). Jesus teaches that we must seek restoration with one another before continuing with worship (Matthew 5:23-24). Unity within the body of Christ is a matter of obedience and witness (Ephesians 4:3; Psalm 133:1).

Therefore:

Members are expected to seek peace and reconciliation in the spirit of humility, forgiveness, and Christian love.
Conflicts should first be addressed directly and privately. (Matthew 18:15)
If the matter is not resolved privately, it should be brought respectfully to the board for mediation. (Matthew 18:16)
Repeated, unrepentant, or serious violations of this Code of Conduct may result in consequences including temporary suspension or permanent removal from the group, at the discretion of the board.

13. Agreement to Participate

By requesting membership or participating in LIGHT, each family affirms that:

They understand this is a Christian homeschool community with a Biblical worldview.
They are willing to respect and not contradict the Christian foundation of the group.
They agree to uphold and abide by this Code of Conduct in all group contexts for the good of the community and the safety of all members.

We recognize that families may come from different personal, theological, or cultural backgrounds. However, by joining this community, all participants agree to conduct themselves in a way that supports, rather than disrupts, the group’s conservative Christian values and mission requires a cohesive group wherein each individual accepts and follows the same standards of behavior.